indepthdating
"answers without awkwardness"
Most dating apps suck. Until now.
indepthdating is a detailed dating app for men and women who are serious about finding a long-term partner — and who are tired of the lies, manipulation, and risks of today's dating scene. We cut out the honeymoon phase by matching you with people who are genuinely compatible with you on the issues that actually matter.
"Oh my gosh, you love chocolate ice cream too? Let's get married!"
We're not afraid to ask the hard questions — the real ones that matter when choosing a person to share your life and body with. No more sunken-cost relationships. No more love bombing for seven months before they turn into someone you don't recognize.
Find out where someone really stands on the things that quietly make or break a relationship: hygiene, cleanliness, lifestyle, and — most importantly — sex and intimacy. Here, you're allowed to be exactly who you are, and to find someone who fits you in every way.
- Brush your teeth after every single meal and want a partner who does the same? Here you go.
- Only change your sheets every other week and want someone who's fine with that? Easy.
- Prefer sex at least once a week and want a partner aligned on that? Find them right here.
- Wear NO shoes in the house and want a partner who does the same? No problem.
Be your authentic self at indepthdating, and we'll help you find the partner who lets you stay that way.
Start the questionnaire today.
The questionnaire is free. You only pay US$5/month to view your matches.
Take the questionnaire to reveal who you really are — values, dealbreakers, lifestyle, future.
We compare you with others using their actual answers, not selfies or one-liners.
Message your matches privately. Photos unlock after 3 days, to protect both sides.
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Browse and click answers here for free. Sign up to save your answers and see matches.
No more wasted dates.
One simple price. US$5/month to unlock matches and private messaging.